Whom Should We Live This Life for – Others or Our Own Self?

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Before we get into the core idea of this question, the first question which needs to be cleared up is, “What does living the life for one’s own self mean?” From the top view one might say that I want to live the life in my own way wherein I’d be allowed to do what …

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How To Deal With The Difficult Behaviour of Family Members?

One of my readers posted a question where she mentioned that she is going through a tough time dealing with her husband’s family. She finds it tough to get along with the family members not because of her own attitude but because her in-laws and other relatives do not like her much and thus have …

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Hi NRJ, My mind is always filled with negative thoughts and that too to the extent that I feel exhausted. Many types of disgusting thoughts keep clouding my mind at times and I find myself helpless and weak. I keep thinking but I do not understand how I can work upon this. Please reply.

Hi, I completely understand your situation and what you are going through currently. I need to first of all bring forth the fact that negativity lies in our own brain. If we develop a negative thought or a negative attitude or a mindset in life, it is we alone who are to be blamed and …

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“The Way We Look At Things” Attitude!!!

When was the last time you were sad because of some incident or an event that took place in your life? Like most of the people, you must have entered a gloomy state and must have wished that this phase passes away at the earliest. You must have cribbed over the incident and the fact …

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I have a sibling who is much more intelligent and smart than I am. Somewhere I feel I’m getting overshadowed by his achievements and success. What should be my ideology so that I can deal with such a feeling in a positive manner?

The problem which you have described has become a common one nowadays wherein one child feels that he/she is getting overshadowed by the other child’s achievements and success. With arousal of such feelings and flowing away in this current, bitterness and hatred starts taking place within the minds of individuals which eventually results into conflicts …

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A Herb called Self-Compassion!

Compassion is a very small term which has a deep meaning if one really tries to understand or give it a thought. We all have heard or rather every religion teaches us to be compassionate. Every religion preaches the quality of compassion; that one must develop compassion towards other human beings, others’ sufferings and problems …

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See The World Through The Eyes Of Truth!

When I was a kid I did not have an idea about what the world is and how it runs. I was immature and I saw the world through the eyes of my parents and other elders. They taught me the art of living in this world and surviving and sustaining the forces of this …

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If one faces some kind of insult on the street or in a public place, then how should he react to such a situation?

When a person falls in a situation wherein he faces some or the other form of insult on the street or in a public place, the major factor that drives that person’s actions and eventually the entire scene is the ego of the individuals involved. First of all I would like to make one point …

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Life Does Not Stop For Anyone, It Just Goes On!

Life Does Not Stop For Anyone, It Just Goes On!

There was someone in some corner of the world who was a very lively person. He always wanted to live life to the fullest. He used to search for love and happiness in every event and at every stage of life. He always wanted to stay happy and his overall attitude was to keep everyone …

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How To Prevent Yourself From Falling Into Conflicts in 5 Ways

You may have noticed it many times in your life especially at your work, at home or somewhere outside with friends, that unknowingly your talks, your discussions and suggestions turn into a fierce argument and quarrels. Many times people fall into a quarrel or an argument with those whom they don’t even know. It could …

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