Please suggest how can I behave more consistently around my friends?

First of all, why do you wish to behave more consistently around your friends? The fact is that it is not possible for anyone to do that because every person is different in nature, has a different ideology and accordingly perceives every other person differently in  different situations. Every mind is different, every thought in …

Continue reading »

The Purpose of Life

There was this boy who used to live life quite casually. He was from a financially well settled family. After passing school, he went on to junior college followed by graduation. Things were moving on quite smoothly without many hassles in life until one day he came across someone who gave him a purpose to …

Continue reading »

Control Your Negative Emotions Today!!!

Control Your Negative Emotions Today!!!

Controlling our negative emotions is one of the most daunting tasks in many people’s life. When we talk about negative emotions, we specifically talk about those emotions which develop gloominess and sadness within ones inner soul. These emotions include anger, fear, jealousy, hatred, and so on. A person in control of these emotions tends to …

Continue reading »

My 9 year old is an outstanding student at her class. Usually she aces all the exams and never had any problem with her assignments or tests. Last year she was accepted to a prestigious math programme, at a college. She liked it very much. This year, the same college called her to try out for their science program but she was rejected as she did not pass. She is an extremely sensitive girl, and although popular, loved by friends and teachers – she has insecurity issues and tends to over critique herself. Should I tell her she has been rejected? The thought does not even cross her mind. I can hide this from her, and make an excuse that we cannot send her to this programme. Or – should I tell her the truth and cope with this. Although I know it will hurt her deeply.

Hi, I understand your concern for your daughter and it is natural for any parent to protect their child in such matters which are emotionally sensitive enough. But after going through your question, the first thing that comes to my mind and I’d like to tell you is that do not think of hiding this …

Continue reading »

How To Deal With Discontentment Towards Life?

How To Deal With Discontentment Towards Life?

Discontentment towards life can have many reasons. I have come across a number of people who are in different scenarios wherein they do not like the life they are living. People get discontented when their expectations from life do not get fulfilled. For example, some elderly couple might feel such a discontentment because their children …

Continue reading »

Hi, further to your article on building trust, I wanted to know if it is really practical that somebody who has broken someone’s trust will admit it and are the relations strong now-a-days that somebody actually does it. I don’t want the one who has broken my trust to say sorry or admit his/her mistake. I want my relations with him/her to be so trustworthy that the person can freely tell me about the fact and make me understand the situation.

Coming upon the first point; of admitting after breaking someone’s trust; here all I can say is, that it solely depends on that person whether he/she wants to come ahead and confess it or not. That again depends on the ideology and the viewpoint of that person. Someone who is really truthful with his conscience …

Continue reading »

Maa

Mother! You are the one who brought me into this world; not just that but you protected me in every walk of life. I cannot stay away from you; I cannot stay without seeing you in front of me. Mother! You are my life, you are my world, you are my soul and my identity …

Continue reading »

Rim Jhim Gire Saawan

This song which is from the 1979 Hindi movie ‘Manzil’ is one of my all-time favourites. The reason behind this is that somewhere in the core, this song hides a deep meaning of love and positivity which are one of the most essential ingredients required in this life. The lyrics of the song triggers a …

Continue reading »

Tum Hi Ho

This is ‘Tum Hi Ho’ song from the Bollywood movie Aashiqui 2, originally sung by Arijit Singh and music composed by Mithoon. This song is about Love; love, which is truly an indisputable feeling in the world; a feeling which is above all and which can help a person reach the highest level of his …

Continue reading »

How To Deal With A Conflict With Parents?

Most of you who are reading this article will find themselves at home because they have at some stage in life gone through phase where they have entered into an argument or a conflict with their parents. We can take the examples of the smallest incidents right from sitting at the dining table for the …

Continue reading »

Older posts «