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Whom Should We Live This Life for – Others or Our Own Self?

Before we get into the core idea of this question, the first question which needs to be cleared up is, “What does living the life for one’s own self mean?” From the top view one might say that I want to live the life in my own way wherein I’d be allowed to do what […]

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How To Deal With The Difficult Behaviour of Family Members?

One of my readers posted a question where she mentioned that she is going through a tough time dealing with her husband’s family. She finds it tough to get along with the family members not because of her own attitude but because her in-laws and other relatives do not like her much and thus have […]

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Hi NRJ, My mind is always filled with negative thoughts and that too to the extent that I feel exhausted. Many types of disgusting thoughts keep clouding my mind at times and I find myself helpless and weak. I keep thinking but I do not understand how I can work upon this. Please reply.

Hi, I completely understand your situation and what you are going through currently. I need to first of all bring forth the fact that negativity lies in our own brain. If we develop a negative thought or a negative attitude or a mindset in life, it is we alone who are to be blamed and […]

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“The Way We Look At Things” Attitude!!!

Glass is Half Full or Half Empty!

When was the last time you were sad because of some incident or an event that took place in your life? Like most of the people, you must have entered a gloomy state and must have wished that this phase passes away at the earliest. You must have cribbed over the incident and the fact […]

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I have a sibling who is much more intelligent and smart than I am. Somewhere I feel I’m getting overshadowed by his achievements and success. What should be my ideology so that I can deal with such a feeling in a positive manner?

The problem which you have described has become a common one nowadays wherein one child feels that he/she is getting overshadowed by the other child’s achievements and success. With arousal of such feelings and flowing away in this current, bitterness and hatred starts taking place within the minds of individuals which eventually results into conflicts […]

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A Herb called Self-Compassion!

A Herb called Self-Compassion!

Compassion is a very small term which has a deep meaning if one really tries to understand or give it a thought. We all have heard or rather every religion teaches us to be compassionate. Every religion preaches the quality of compassion; that one must develop compassion towards other human beings, others’ sufferings and problems […]

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See The World Through The Eyes Of Truth!

See The World Through The Eyes Of Truth!

When I was a kid I did not have an idea about what the world is and how it runs. I was immature and I saw the world through the eyes of my parents and other elders. They taught me the art of living in this world and surviving and sustaining the forces of this […]

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If one faces some kind of insult on the street or in a public place, then how should he react to such a situation?

When a person falls in a situation wherein he faces some or the other form of insult on the street or in a public place, the major factor that drives that person’s actions and eventually the entire scene is the ego of the individuals involved. First of all I would like to make one point […]

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Life Does Not Stop For Anyone, It Just Goes On!

There was someone in some corner of the world who was a very lively person. He always wanted to live life to the fullest. He used to search for love and happiness in every event and at every stage of life. He always wanted to stay happy and his overall attitude was to keep everyone […]

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How To Prevent Yourself From Falling Into Conflicts in 5 Ways

Avoid falling into a conflict with people in 5 ways

You may have noticed it many times in your life especially at your work, at home or somewhere outside with friends, that unknowingly your talks, your discussions and suggestions turn into a fierce argument and quarrels. Many times people fall into a quarrel or an argument with those whom they don’t even know. It could […]

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Tell Your Siblings That You Love Them!

We all have somewhere or sometimes in our childhood have had experiences of some or the other conflicts with our siblings. It is a common picture in families where there are more than one children growing up together. Those instances of eating together, playing together, watching TV together and going to school together are memorable. […]

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Suicide Is Not An End To The Problems, Forgiveness Is!

A child committed suicide after failing in examinations. A mother killed herself after facing the atrocities from her in-laws’ end. A farmer killed himself because he was not able to earn sufficient enough to feed his family. These are just a few examples which we read every day in the newspaper. If we learn the […]

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When we face someone who has mostly hurt us, how should we react? How should we control our anger for that person?

Someone has rightly said that your overall attitude and character can be judged to some extent by the way you treat not those who love you, but those who can do no good to you. These words are sufficient enough to answer this question. A hidden message in this can be understood in this way. […]

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How To Help Your Child Deal With Failure in Examinations?

How To Help Your Child Deal With Failure in Exams?

We all understand that today’s world has become very competitive. Getting higher grades and that too from a good college or university, to find a promising job and then step by step promotions and all those related chores are extremely stressful and tiring. Even we as adults find these tasks difficult and painful. Then imagine […]

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How To Deal With Your Stress in 6 Ways?

How To Deal With Your Stress in 6 Ways?

I am sure that most of the readers out here will easily connect themselves with this article and hence I am going to place out the 6 most effective ways which can help one get over the stress and tension that one goes through in the entire day. Our entire day passes away in fulfilling […]

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Are You Willing To Give Up Something For Your Own Good?

Are you willing to give up something for your own good?

Are you willing to give up something for your own good? If yes, then make sure your overall perspective is clear and in the right direction. Let us begin with what the great scientist Albert Einstein believed. I must be willing to give up what I am in order to become what I will be. […]

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Do you find yourself complaining every now and then? Work upon this habit today

Do you find yourself complaining every now and then?

Have you ever come across people who keep complaining all the time, people who find mistakes in every person, every action and every incident happening around? People who have developed such an attitude usually fail to realize their own mistakes. Complaining at every point and finding mistakes in every action somewhere becomes their habit which […]

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Women Security : The question which the Delhi rape incident raises

Women Security : A question which the Delhi rape incident raises

The subject of Women’s Security has been on fire these days. It has always been a concern for many people and communities around the world. It becomes apparent when we look at those various incidents taking place around the world, wherein the identity of woman has been misunderstood by a few individuals in the society […]

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Why is it that many people make false opinion about other person’s nature? What should we do in such a situation?

What others should think and what they should not is not and will never be in our hands. Every person is independent enough to take their own decisions, to workaround situations by themselves. Similarly every person is independent to have an opinion about a person or a situation. Yes, many times those opinions or stands […]

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5 Ways to Improve Your Communication Skills

On this blog, till date we have read about a number of issues that arise between individuals. We have seen issues between friends, between husband and a wife, issues between parents and children and also issues or conflicts that take place randomly with people whom we do not even know. In all these cases, there […]

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