Category Archives for Self Development

Love is Giving, Giving is Love

It was just about a week back when I was going through the thoughts and ideas of people around the world, over a common platform on the web, when I came across this very beautiful text written down by one of my good acquaintances. This piece of content was in fact, not just a small, […]

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How do I feel motivated in life?

How do I feel motivated in life?

I am feeling demotivated. I’ll do that task later. I do not wish to do it anyway. What will I achieve by doing this task? How will it help me? All of these and many more reasoning and such sense of demotivation clouds our minds whenever we have certain tasks ahead of us or we […]

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How to Deal with Distractions Coming in the way of Success ?

In achieving any goal, distractions would always be there because our mind is so unstable that it keeps wandering around in the whole world and finds it difficult to constantly concentrate on one goal. Hence what is essential in staying strong is our focus. We need to stay focused on what we wish to achieve […]

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Control Your Negative Emotions Today!!!

Controlling our negative emotions is one of the most daunting tasks in many people’s life. When we talk about negative emotions, we specifically talk about those emotions which develop gloominess and sadness within ones inner soul. These emotions include anger, fear, jealousy, hatred, and so on. A person in control of these emotions tends to […]

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How To Deal With Discontentment Towards Life?

Discontentment towards life can have many reasons. I have come across a number of people who are in different scenarios wherein they do not like the life they are living. People get discontented when their expectations from life do not get fulfilled. For example, some elderly couple might feel such a discontentment because their children […]

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Hi NRJ, My mind is always filled with negative thoughts and that too to the extent that I feel exhausted. Many types of disgusting thoughts keep clouding my mind at times and I find myself helpless and weak. I keep thinking but I do not understand how I can work upon this. Please reply.

Hi, I completely understand your situation and what you are going through currently. I need to first of all bring forth the fact that negativity lies in our own brain. If we develop a negative thought or a negative attitude or a mindset in life, it is we alone who are to be blamed and […]

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When we face someone who has mostly hurt us, how should we react? How should we control our anger for that person?

Someone has rightly said that your overall attitude and character can be judged to some extent by the way you treat not those who love you, but those who can do no good to you. These words are sufficient enough to answer this question. A hidden message in this can be understood in this way. […]

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Do you find yourself complaining every now and then? Work upon this habit today

Do you find yourself complaining every now and then?

Have you ever come across people who keep complaining all the time, people who find mistakes in every person, every action and every incident happening around? People who have developed such an attitude usually fail to realize their own mistakes. Complaining at every point and finding mistakes in every action somewhere becomes their habit which […]

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5 Ways to Improve Your Communication Skills

On this blog, till date we have read about a number of issues that arise between individuals. We have seen issues between friends, between husband and a wife, issues between parents and children and also issues or conflicts that take place randomly with people whom we do not even know. In all these cases, there […]

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Hi NRJ, I start to shiver and my body becomes shaky when I’m angry. What should I do? How can I work upon this?

Shaking your legs or feeling shakiness or an unsteadiness in the entire body is nothing but a psychological sign of anger. Different people express their anger in different ways. Some of the various signs of anger are: Shakiness in the body Tightly pressing your teeth Feeling a heat from within the body Face and eyes […]

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Is it good to be known as an opinionated person?

It is good to have an opinion of something. Having fallen in a situation where you need to place your points and your ideas, you must do it. You can call such a person as opinionated. Not giving an opinion at certain times is also in a small sense being opinionated. It is because the […]

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How can one improve the overall Quality of Life?

How to improve the quality of life?

The foremost requirement for improving the quality of life is the realization that somewhere something is missing in your life. The day we realize and accept the fact that we are incomplete in some or the other sense we must take a stand to work upon that emptiness. We must make a decision, a promise […]

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How to deal with the problem of Depression?

How to deal with the problem of depression?

Depression has become a common disease which we find in a number of people around. The figures available of the various surveys conducted globally are sufficient enough to prove this fact. Depression is a mental illness in which the patient generally passes through a phase wherein he/she feels sad, low and helpless. Such state of […]

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What are the different ways to build trust?

Trust is something that develops over time. Every moment when you interact with someone, you are creating an impression of yours on the mind of that opposite person. Every word that you speak, every eye contact that you make, every gesture of yours plays an important role in the process of building up trust. But […]

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How can we control our thoughts? My mind is filled with number of thoughts every moment and they keep bothering me. How can I work upon it?

You have very well understood this important aspect of human nature. There is not a single moment when we are devoid of thoughts. If we take out some time for ourselves and think with a relaxed mind, we will realize that every moment our mind is filled with thoughts. These thoughts could be related to […]

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How to become a good judge of character?

Before one understands how to become a good judge of character, it is essential that one has a clear understanding of the various aspects of this quality. Being a good judge of character means to possess an ability or quality to understand someone else in the true sense. Even a person who is not that […]

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I have achieved everything that I wanted from life. But I still feel that I am not happy.

Our desires are never ending. One ends and the next pops up. Throughout our life we keep craving for more and more, but our wishes and our desires never end. This is not just your case, but most of us are in the same boat. We wish for one thing. When that wish gets fulfilled, […]

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I am unable to stop myself from feeling low when I think of other people who have achieved a lot in life. How can I work upon this negative feeling of mine?

If looking at other person’s achievements and abilities makes you feel low for yourself, then you are not only being jealous of that other person, but you are even hindering your own potential to achieve great heights. It is easy to understand in the following way. If looking at others’ achievements makes us feel low […]

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How can I learn to think logically and not emotionally?

To think logically, you must first understand the main question that why should one think logically? When one thinks emotionally, he/she might not be analyzing a situation or the event from every point of view. His/her decision in that scenario could be a biased one. Not only this much, but such a thinking can lead […]

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